okays im back for more..okays today's topic of blogging will be very random and it is something to do with life.like DUH!okays not going to be about how i spend my day and etc.its something else.okays i shall start and stop the crappings.
okays,before that,the following things that i will be sharing in this post is not meant to discriminate or insult anyone,i just want to share my point and views about it. okays hope you all will understand.
recently,i happen to came across this question:between dislike,hate and like,base on your own thoughts,what do you think are the differences between these 3 words?(you can either base on people or place or object or anything you like to your answers.)
okay for you all how will you answer this question?okay for me,i feel i will use people as i feel people have FEELINGS so its easier to say base on people.okay there can be 3 situations between the 3 words on people or even more im just going to share 3.
Situation 1:you are a person that dont really like to say out your feelings to others and often tend to act it out to show it to others about your feelings towards them.
Situation 2:you are a person that is straightforward and will say things very dirrectly to others even if its feelings.
Situation 3:you are a person that know clearly of how your feelings to others just that you think it will hurt them to say it out to them,so you act the opposite way to how you feel about them thinking that things will work this way.
here are my points and views:
for situation 1:
you can be a person that is quite indirect and especially when its the negative things that you feel about people.take for example,you dislike or hate this person but you think that by saying,will hurt them so you take another way out and thought that it wont hurt them and that is acting or showing it out.okay this is how the person will feel,"doesnt he/she knows that this will hurt me even more?why is he/she doing this?"maybe for enermies you do this but what if its your family?your friends?would you have acted the same way?you are sure about your feelings,just that you dont know how to put it through by saying.
for situation 2:
As mentioned in the situation,you are too direct.you tend to say things too direct that even yourself sometimes dont know you have hurt people someway or another.take for example,you like this someone and as normal you will say it.but this is how the person will feel,hmm.he/she likes me?is he/she lying?why is he/she saying so abruptly?and so direct?why dont he/she try to show it through feelings first?then say?why is he/she so impatient?and this is what happens and sometimes things dont have to go too direct till this extent that you have to quickly say it.sometimes you just have to wait.thats why,time will determine everything.you thought by just saying, will just prove everything even though the world is a freedom of speech.
for situation 3:
you can be a person that will make people suspcious of.you can be abit weird sometimes when showing feelings to others.if you guys dont understand, take for example,you know you dislike this someone but you dont want to tell them so as your afraid they will get hurt.but you are wrong.in the end,they are still hurt by you.cause after that, you will act like you still like this person and continue being his/her friend.this is how the person will feel/react to it,why is this person so damn weird?does he/she knows how to differentiate between dislike and like?if he/she really dislike, he/she could have just said so.at least it doesnt hurt as much as to know that he/she have been acting as though he/she likes me.why must he/she do this?what does he/she gets by doing this?fun?0.o
okay let me give a conclusion,haha i know it sounds like some english compo but what the heck ,let me continue.
in conclusion,human beings are selfish creatures as all of you know.but in the real world,nobody is perfect.we all have our wrongs and rights, we should not discriminate or insult each other in regardless of anything.but to ALWAYS AND I MEANT ALWAYS,HELP EACH OTHER TO MEND WAYS(if you know them well)/CHANGE FOR THE BETTER,ENCOURAGE THEM,MORE OR LESS,DO SOMETHING MEANINGFUL FOR THEM,MAKE THEM FEEL THAT "YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS ALONE."as this way,you will be able to make more friends and maybe sometimes,create lesser troubles and conflicts.And wont that feel great?(= I BET IT DO!
Okays thats all. (:
happy reading guys and understanding it.(: